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《上帝从不眨眼》中传遍世界的50条人生箴言
传遍世界各地的50条人生箴言，它们被印在杯子、手提袋、时钟、冰箱贴等各种物件上，它们还被运用到婚礼、毕业典礼、主日学校、受诫礼以及纪念日等各种重要的场合。全球有近百万个网站均转载了这些箴言，有大约5000多个中文网站转发了这50条箴言。
1 生活虽不尽公平，但依然美好
Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2 犹豫不决之时，迈出正确的下一步
When in doubt, just take the next right step.
3 人生太短暂，不要浪费时间去憎恨任何人
Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4 别太对自己认真了，没有人会这样做
Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5 每月还清信用卡
Pay off your credit cards every month.
6 不必成为每次争吵的胜利者，学会求同存异
You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7 哭泣时找人陪，这比独自哭泣更能治愈伤痛
Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8 对上帝生气也没关系，他能够承受
It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9 最重要的性器官是大脑
The most important sex organ is the brain.
10 上帝给我们的，从来不会超过我们原本应该承担的
God never gives us more than we were designed to carry.
11 平静对待你的过去，它才不会弄砸你的现在
Make peace with your past so it doesn't screw up the present.
12 让你孩子看见你在哭泣也无妨
It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13 不要将自己的生活与他人作比较，你不知道他们全部的人生
Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14 如果一段关系不能光明正大，请不要陷入其中
If a relationship has to be kept secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15 任何事情都可能在瞬间转变，但请不要担心，上帝从不眨眼
Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16 对于渴望同情的人，生命非常短暂；忙碌着活，或忙碌着死
Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17 只要你能集中精力过好今天，你就可以应付生活中的任何事情，而不会不知所措
You can get through anything life hands you if you stay put in the day you are in and don't jump ahead.
18 作家就是写作的人，如果你想成为一个作家，那就写作
A writer is someone who writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19 重拾快乐童年永不嫌晚，但这第二次只能靠你自己
It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20 当追求你生命中所爱的事物时，千万不要放弃
When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21 点上蜡烛，铺上漂亮的床单，穿上迷人的内衣，不要将任何东西留到特殊的日子，今天就足够特别
Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save anything for a special occasion. Today is special enough.
22 充分准备，然后顺其自然
Overprepare, then go with the flow.
23 现在就标新立异吧，别等到老年再穿紫色
Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24 领到第一份薪水就开始为退休存10%
Start saving 10 percent for retirement as soon as you get your first paycheck.
25 没有任何人可以对你的幸福负责，你才是你快乐的主宰
No one else is in charge of your happiness. You are the CEO of your joy.
26 面对每一个所谓的困难时，如此说：“在五年之内，这会有影响吗？”
Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27 永远选择快乐地生活
Always choose life.
28 原谅每一个人，每一件事
Forgive everyone everything.
29 其他人怎么看你，与你无关
What other people think of you is none of your business.
30 时间几乎可以治愈所有的伤口，多给自己一些时间
The passage of time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31 境遇无论好坏，都将会改变
No matter how good or how bad a situation is, it will change.
32 生病时照顾你的不是你的工作，而是你的朋友，与他们保持联系
Your job won't take care of you when you are sick, but your friends will. Stay in touch with them.
33 相信奇迹
Believe in miracles.
34 上帝爱你是因为他是上帝，而不是因为你有所作为或不为
God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35 不在逆境中灭亡，就在逆境中成长
Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
36 越老越要永葆青春，英年早逝只有在电影中才会感人
Growing old beats the alternative. Dying young looks good only in movies.
37 孩子只有一个童年，给他们一个难忘的童年
Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38 读《圣诗》吧，无论你的信仰是什么，它们涵盖了人类所有的情感
Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39 每天出去走走，奇迹无处不在
Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting for you to discover.
40 如果我们将自己的问题放在一边，先去看看别人的问题，我们就会克服自己的问题
If we all threw our problems in a pile and got a look at everyone else's, we'd fight to get our own back.
41 不要旁听生命，从现在起就展示自我，做最好的自己
Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of now.
42 抛弃任何无用、丑陋或悲伤的事情
Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
43 最终真正重要的是你爱过的东西
All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44 嫉妒其实是浪费时间，因为你已经拥有了你所需要的一切
Envy is a waste of time. You already have everything you truly need.
45 最好的还在后头
The best is yet to come.
46 无论感觉怎样，请都起床、穿好衣服、去迎接生活
No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up for life.
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深呼吸，这会让你冷静下来
Take a deep breathe.It calms the mind.
48 不提出要求，就不会出现你想要的结果
If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
49 谦让
Yield.
50 尽管没有精美包装，生活仍然是份厚礼
Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
摘自中国商业出版社《上帝从不眨眼：应对人生挫折50讲》